Digital Bowerbird

My name is Lani.

Digital Bowerbird is a collection of content about media, digital life vs. analogue life, urban design, pop culture, people, design, photography, advertising, books, travel, fashion and things for the home.

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Something is off, I can feel it. People no longer blog because they have the desire to share their unique perspectives with the world. Every single fashion blog is starting to look the same. That old quote “you are unique, just like everybody else” is starting to feel uncomfortable accurate. I don’t want to be a fashion blogger if that means (once again) being that loser girl with no friends who just doesn’t fit in compared to the glossy DSLR photos of girls with sleek hair wearing Celine. I still shop at thrift stores, will never be able to afford Celine and that’s totally okay. But I can’t compete with that because it’s just not my arena. Don’t get me wrong, I’m still interested in sharing my writing, my style and ultimately myself with the world but I would like to diversify and step outside of my comfort zone.
Hipster Musings (article found via Read.Look.Think by Jessica Stanley)
It can’t be a coincidence that in summer we practically abandon the stove, opting for simple, refreshing foods that require as little time as possible to prepare, while in winter it is soups, stews, roasts and brasies that enamor us - activities that beg a little patience.
Cooking Alone, Kinfolk Mag.

Holiday Typography

Beautiful stone worn away by the ocean, South Coogee

Old fuel station somewhere between Newcastle and Lake Macquarie.

Summer holidays have come to a close and it is time to return to work. Slowly sorting through holiday snaps and the one thing I kept seeing throughout our travels were hydrangeas. I was increasingly fascinated by capturing them against various “urban” backdrops - bricks, houses and more. Here are a few of the ones I photographed.

Saying you like receiving personal letters in the post is like stating that you rather enjoy breathing, or having ears on either side of your head: it’s taken as a given, and not to be used as a quirky character trait to lure in members of the opposite sex on dating sites.
Marieke Hardy ‘You’ll be sorry when I’m dead’

With a little less than 10 hours left of 2011, it is hard to believe 12 months have passed us by. A few lessons from the year that was:

  • Don’t f*@k with Mother Nature - January saw Brisbane flood and much of Queensland experience some level of flooding. In the case of my hometown people experienced an inland tsunami that devastated (that’s putting it mildly) whole communities. That was just the beginning for what would be Mother Nature’s ravage on the world in the first half of 2011. The lesson: we (humans) are truly insignificant in the grand scheme of things.
  • The worst case scenario can brings out the best in people - The community spirit following the floods was awesome in the truest sense of the word. I remember volunteering at Mt Coot-tha, organising volunteers, and seeing kids about 11 or 12 wanting to help in the clean up but being turned away as they didn’t have parental consent. To see everyone working together to help friends, family and strangers was uplifting and helping clean up was more rewarding than any days work spent at the office.
  • When your Mother says, “You’ll find it/him/something when you least expect it” - She’s actually right. You’ll of course spend years shrugging that cliche off, scoffing everytime your mother tells you. When you least expect it and when you stop looking, things seem to just fall into place. 

Of course things year presented a lot more lessons like learning to “go with the flow”, trust your instincts, challenge yourself and while 2012 will undoubtedly present a lot more challenges, for the first time in a long time, I’m ready for it.

Wherever you are this New Year’s Eve and whoever you are with I wish you a safe, prosperous and joyful New Year!

This is the thing: When you hit 28 or 30, everything begins to divide. You can see very clearly two kinds of people. On one side, people who have used their 20s to learn and grow, to find … themselves and their dreams, people who know what works and what doesn’t, who have pushed through to become real live adults. Then there’s the other kind, who are hanging onto college, or high school even, with all their might. They’ve stayed in jobs they hate, because they’re too scared to get another one. They’ve stayed with men or women who are good but not great, because they don’t want to be lonely. … they mean to develop intimate friendships, they mean to stop drinking like life is one big frat party. But they don’t do those things, so they live in an extended adolescence, no closer to adulthood than when they graduated.

Don’t be like that. Don’t get stuck. Move, travel, take a class, take a risk. There is a season for wildness and a season for settledness, and this is neither. This season is about becoming. Don’t lose yourself at happy hour, but don’t lose yourself on the corporate ladder either. Stop every once in a while and go out to coffee or climb in bed with your journal.

Ask yourself some good questions like: “Am I proud of the life I’m living? What have I tried this month? … Do the people I’m spending time with give me life, or make me feel small? Is there any brokenness in my life that’s keeping me from moving forward?”

Now is your time. Walk closely with people you love, and with people who believe … life is a grand adventure. Don’t get stuck in the past, and don’t try to fast-forward yourself into a future you haven’t yet earned. Give today all the love and intensity and courage you can, and keep traveling honestly along life’s path.

What I pick for my blog and what I pick for Twitter are different things. One thing that is true for both, by and large, is that it has to feel like something that leaves you with more than just a moment of gawking. There are really cool or funny videos, or visually stunning photos, and that’s fine, but none of them really give you more when you close that tab, you know? I try to find stuff that a little bit, in a tiny way changes how you see something about the world. With Brain Pickings, especially, whenever I look at a piece of content. I think “Can I add something to it? Can I add some depth and context and background to really make it worth featuring?” Or do I just do what Jeff Jarvis calls “do-what-you-do-best-and-link-to-the-rest,” and just tweet it instead? That’s always the litmus test. Is there something that I can say. If I can pull in pieces of older content or something else that connects different disciplines or different ideologies, then I will write an article about it.
It was crazy, crazy times. Well, one of my jobs was at a start-up ad agency. They were trying to do things differently, work with socially conscious clients, and to really be a more creative take on advertising than the industry itself. But I noticed that what the guys at the office were circulating for inspiration still came from within the ad industry. I thought that was really counterintuitive—to only borrow inspiration from within your own industry.

It is Christmas Eve here and as tomorrow will be spent with those near and dear here is to a happy festivus, fellow Tumblrs!

I was first introduced to Amanda Mooney through her blog, We Are the Digital Kids. In the time that I have followed her, Amanda has gone from working with Edelman Chicago (including co-founding  Edelman’s global millennial agency 8095) to now working in Shanghai, China managing Eldeman’s digital team. Her insight, understanding and natural submersion in digital life is inspiring and I have no doubt she is a face to watch.

The following video is from her talk at the 2011 PICNIC Festival where she talked about how brands mobilise and engage, and how the evolving dynamics of trust influences strategy. Amanda steps through how to evolve a brand to be a catalyst instead of a traditional marketer.

Amanda Mooney on Trust me and I’ll Trust You / PICNIC Festival 2011 from PICNIC on Vimeo.

You can check out other videos from PICNIC here.

*This first appeared on BrioDaily